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Chutzpah

(Chutzpah)…that quality enshrined in a man who, having killed his mother and father, throws himself on the mercy of the court because he is an orphan.

~Leo Rosten/The Joys of Yiddish

I have been pretty tough on white evangelicals the past few weeks.  And with good reason as most recently evidenced by the latest Pew Research Center survey on attitudes toward refugees in which 68 percent of white evangelicals do not believe the United States has a responsibility to accept refugees.  Which makes you wonder if they are channeling Bill Clinton when citing the sermon on the mount. “It depends on what the meaning of ‘welcome the stranger into your house’ is.”

However, it is unfair to single out one group when there are equally hypocritical representatives of all the major religions and among the unaffiliated.  Today, my focus is the domination of which I am most familiar.  Although my adherence to religious practice associated with Judaism becomes more distant daily, I still consider myself a “member of the tribe,” with deep historical and cultural ties.  Among the latter is the concept of “Tikkun Olam” which roughly translates into “heal the world.”  The concept first appears in Orthodox Judaic commentaries as a call to eschew all forms of idolatry.  In “Tikkun Olam: Social Responsibility in Jewish Thought and Law (1997)”, the four authors write, “In the modern era, this concept calls for Jews to bear responsibility not only for our own moral, spiritual and material welfare, but also for the welfare of society at large.”

Sadly, there are anecdotal instances in which individuals raised in Jewish households–e.g. Bernie Madoff, Jeffrey Epstein–by virtue of their greed and perversity result in disgrace and embarrassment and, most unfortunately, affirm the stereotypes of those who hate and have persecuted Jews throughout history.  Don’t believe me?  Readers’ comments on The Daily Stormer website in response to coverage of the Epstein story include, “Jews do not fear wrongdoing…they fear getting caught and exposed for who they are…jews.”  Or, “If it wasn’t Epstein, it would be another Jew.” It is unconscionable this kind of bigotry is given cover in Donald Trump’s America.

So, how do you fight prejudice?  With role models.  John F. Kennedy’s election forever debunked the fear a Catholic president would be more beholden to the Vatican than the Constitution.  And Barack Obama’s eight years in the White House demonstrated that a black man with power did not have to be angry a la Putney Swope who, in the 1969 movie of the same name, said, “I’m not going to rock the boat.  I’m going to sink the f***ing ship!”  Equally important, the Obama family stood in stark contrast to many of the images we see of the African-American experience on the news and in popular culture.  My favorite commentary on inauguration day 2017 accompanied a picture of Obama and Trump on the White House steps before heading to the Capitol.  “Guess which man has five children by three different women?”

Which brings me back to Judaism.  Would the election of the first Jewish president affirm or refute the prejudicial memes spouted by those who believe in the international Zionist conspiracy?  An “N” of zero makes any empirical analysis impossible.  But we do have data on Jewish-Americans in or near positions of national power.  And the reviews have been less than glowing.  For example, Abe Fortas was nominated by Lyndon Johnson to become the first Jewish chief justice of the Supreme Court.  His confirmation was derailed when Judiciary Committee chairman James Eastland (yes, the same James Eastland Joe Biden referenced last month) opposed Fortas’ promotion from justice to chief justice.

Unfortunately, Fortas brought his own nails to seal his coffin when it was revealed he had accepted speaking fees from business interests presenting a conflict of interest if and when these interests had cases before the court.  By today’s standards, this indiscretion would barely make the news.  But opponents used it to suggest Fortas could be controlled by moneyed interests.  And eventually Johnson withdrew the nomination.

Then there is the case of Joe Lieberman who came within a hanging chad of becoming vice-president.  Instead of continuing to support the Democratic agenda, Lieberman became an independent and supported John McCain in 2008.  I understand they had become close compadres while serving together in the Senate.  But that does not explain Lieberman’s endorsement of Sarah Palin, saying, “She is the leader we can count on to help John shake up Washington.”  As we now know, his affinity for McCain was more than support for a personal friend.  In 2016, he tossed aside years of progressive ideology and backed Trump amid rumors he might become the next U.S. ambassador to the United Nations.  Can you spell “opportunist?”  I knew you could.

And now, although not elected, Ivanka Trump and Jared Kushner are perhaps in the highest position of national influence than any Jewish couple in the nation’s history.  And how would they use that influence?  In May 2017, Jodi Kantor, Rachel Abrams and Maggie Haberman wrote the following in a New York Times article titled, “Ivanka Trump Has the President’s Ear. Here’s Her Agenda.”

In interviews last week, she said she intended to act as a moderating force in an administration swept into office by nationalist sentiment. Other officials added that she had weighed in on topics including climate, deportation, education and refugee policy.

I know, Ivanka was not born into Judaism.  She converted when she married Kushner.  However, it is said that converts often become stronger believers of their chosen theology than those who come to a religious denomination by birth. And based on the 2017 Times report, Ms. Trump would seem to support the principle of “Tikkun Olam.”  But like her father, selective amnesia runs deep.

  • Where was she when daddy decided to withdraw from the Paris Climate Accords?
  • What happened to the “moderating force” when Trump demonizes refugees and authorizes raids to deport immigrants whose only crime is wanting a better life for themselves and their families?
  • When has she ever spoken out against Betsy Devos’ proposals to slash funding for public education, deregulate predatory for-profit colleges or weaken protections against sexual assault and harassment under Title IX of the education act?

Not to be outdone by his wife, Kushner, a modern-day Shylock, is more than willing to use his connection to his father-in-law to grease his own financial position.

You have to appreciate the irony.  I, born and raised as Jewish, find myself wondering if, based on the attitudes and behaviors of some at the doorstep of national influence, there is a kernel of truth in the negative stereotypes of my people promoted by the alt-right.  Equally ironic, Jared and Ivanka are Jews only a white supremacist or neo-Nazi could love.

For what it’s worth.
Dr. ESP

 

Synchronicity Runs Deep

The title of today’s post is what you get if Carl Jung sang backup for Stephen Stills and Neil Young on Buffalo Springfield’s 1966 single “For What It’s Worth,” often mistakenly called by its opening line, “Something’s happening here.”  This past weekend synchronicity, Jung’s theory about the connection between seemingly unrelated events, did, in fact, run deeper than normal.  Sometimes that intersection is just interesting.  But at its most potent, it explains the inexplicable.

Image result for pat conroy literary centerThe first event was a visit to the Pat Conroy Literary Center in Beaufort, South Carolina during which we talked with one of the curators Will Balk, who previously owned the local bookstore where Conroy would hold his first signings after the release of each book.  His friendships included, not just Pat, but several of the author’s six siblings who occasionally visited his shop and now the Literary Center.

Not surprisingly, the most often asked question of family members is, “Was your father (Donald Conroy, the model for “the Great Santini”) really as bad as portrayed in the novel?”  According to Balk, they would reply, “It was 10 times as bad.”  His sister Kathy once said, “I would have loved to have had the father in that book, but that’s not who we had.” (Source: 2015 interview in the Charlotte Observer)  It was only after Pat’s youngest brother Tom committed suicide did Donald Conroy realize the physical and mental torture to which he subjected his children and its impact on their lives.

But there was another side of Donald Conroy.  He was a highly decorated Air Force fighter pilot.  And as my wife suggested on the ride back to Hilton Head after visiting the center, this was the environment in which he was most comfortable.  He could be himself and not be viewed as an aberration, or worse, “a monster.”  The strict order and discipline required of a fighter pilot were a better match for Donald Conroy’s core beliefs than the compassion and affection needed by his children.

Which brings me to the second event, the following exchange between CNN reporter Jim Acosta and Donald Trump during Trump’s visit Sunday to the demilitarized zone (DMZ) on the Korean peninsula.

Acosta: What is it with your coziness with some of the dictators and autocrats at these summits?
Trump: I get along with everybody, except you people … I get along with (Russian) President (Vladimir) Putin, I get along with Mohammed (bin Salman) from Saudi Arabia.

Like the Great Santini, Donald Trump is in his element when hobnobbing with the Putins, bin Salmans and Kim Jung Uns of the world.  They reinforce his personal moral (or some might say amoral) compass.   When Donald Conroy had a choice between being the best fighter pilot or best father, he gravitated toward the former because that was how he was hardwired.  Every time Trump has a chance to choose between behaving like an autocrat or a champion of democracy, he too chooses the former.  Like “Santini,” his circuits are permanently soldered.

What is perhaps the saddest commentary is the fact Donald Conroy never considered it a choice until it was too late.  Nor will Trump.  As Popeye always reminded us, “I am what I am and that’s all what I am.”

For what it’s worth.
Dr. ESP

 

…AND the American Way

Image result for mort sahl lbjBefore there was George Carlin or Lewis Black, there was Mort Sahl.  In August 1960, Sahl appeared on the cover of Time Magazine and was lauded as the person who could, through social satire, help voters understand the choices in the upcoming presidential election. In what seems unimaginable today, Sahl befriended several presidents despite his sometimes critical commentaries and was often invited to accompany them on Air Force One, which resulted in my all-time favorite Mort Sahl story which, 50 years later, I can only paraphrase.

I was flying back to Washington, DC from California with President Kennedy when the plane hit an air pocket and dropped several hundred feet.  Kennedy comes out of his private office in the back of the plane and walks right up to me.  He says, “Sahl, you realize what might have just happened don’t you?  If we had crashed, your name would have been in small print.” Ironically, the same thing happened again just recently when I was on Air Force One with Nixon.  Nixon walks to the front of the plane and says to all on board, staff and press, “I hope you realize how close the country came to losing its leadership.”That tells you everything you need to know about these two men.

Mort Sahl released 10 comedy albums between 1958 (At Sunset) and 1973 (Sing a Song of Watergate).  Of all these hours of what can only be described as “streams of consciousness,” one bit seems more relevant today than all the rest.  Again, I will paraphrase.

I know they did not mean it this way, but I never understood why the introduction to the television show Superman proclaimed ‘…this strange visitor from another planet…fights a never ending battle for truth, justice and the American way.”  In school, we were told truth and justice WERE the American way.  But when you add the AND, doesn’t that mean, “There is truth and justice AND then there is the American way.”

For the record, the original description of the Man of Steel, when he first appeared in DC Comics in 1941, did not include “and the American way.”  It was added when the television adaptation Adventures of Superman debuted in September 1952.

Sadly, it appears Sahl was on to something.  Consider the following.

  • Jeffrey Epstein receives a slap on the wrist for running a prostitution ring with under-aged girls.
  • Attorney General William Barr does not believe Congress, much less American voters, have a right to see the complete account of Russian interference in a presidential election.
  • The Illinois state attorney drops charges against actor Jussie Smollet, even though evidence suggests he faked a hate crime which cost the Chicago police time and over $125,000 in resources to investigate.
  • More is being written about the consequences to the children of the parents indicted for gaming the college admissions system than the impact on qualified applicants deprived of educational opportunities.  And despite the fact many of these students posed for staged photographs or provided writing samples that were used by SAT surrogates, “details in court documents indicate students were unaware of the parents’ actions.”   (Source: USA Today, April 12, 2019)  [NOTE: The USA Today story was accompanied by a slide show about Lori Loughlin’s daughter titled, “Olivia Jade Giannulli: Her Life in Pictures.”  Unfortunately, it did not include a mug shot of her with her parents.]
  • And of course, there is Donald Trump who lied, telling anyone who would listen that the Mueller Report had “totally exonerated” him of obstructing justice.  It’s as if the truth is Trump’s Kryptonite.

In July 2015, a CNN/ORC poll showed 95 percent of registered voters claimed honesty and trustworthiness were important characteristics of the next president. Likewise, in theory, most Americans believe in equal justice under the law.  However, as we learned in 2016, theory and behavior are two different things.  The question in 2020 is, “Does behavior change when theory meets reality?’  Consider the new-found support for the Affordable Care Act and it’s impact on the 2018 mid-terms.  In theory, Republicans could attack it.  But once voters realized what was at stake if ACA was repealed, their preferences changed.

So, what could be a winning message for Democrats next year?  Now that you know what it feels like when you have leaders who constantly lie to you, treat differently those who profess loyalty to those who do not and put personal gain above the national interest, remember when America was great.  Not when there was truth, justice AND the American way.  It was when truth and justice WAS the American way.

For what it’s worth.
Dr. ESP

The Seduction of Joe Biden

The title of this post is a reference to the 1979 movie The Seduction of Joe Tynan, written by and starring Alan Alda.  I have a personal connection to this film as it was shot in Maryland at a time when I worked for the state Department of Economic and Community Development in Annapolis.  The Maryland Film Commission, which helps producers find locations and services during filming, was housed in our department.  Additionally, one scene pictured here of Alda and Meryl Streep was shot at a small general aviation airport just down the road from my house on the East River.

The title character U.S. Senator Joe Tynan is seduced by the power he accrues when asked to lead the fight against a Supreme Court nominee.  He becomes a captive of his environment and the situation.

So what does this have to do with Joe Biden and recent allegations by Lucy Flores that the then Vice President inappropriately touched her?  No one, I repeat NO ONE, is accusing Biden, for lack of a better phrase, of “hitting” on them.  Even Flores, in an interview with CNN’s Jake Tapper did not accuse Biden of anything close to sexual harassment.  The terms she used included “made to feel uneasy” and “he violated my space.”

First, I understand exactly how Ms. Flores felt.  I value my space and feel uneasy when others get overly close.  It does not have to involve physical contact.  Someone standing too close behind me in a line at the bank or grocery store makes me feel uneasy.  And there is a physiological rationale for this response.

Some years back I was exposed to the Herrmann Brain Dominance Instrument (HBDI) for which I am now a certified facilitator.  Developed by the late Ned Herrmann during his employment at General Electric, it focuses on our behavior and how it depends on the way our brain is hardwired, unlike behavioral models such as the more familiar Meyers-Briggs assessment.  HBDI measures an individual’s preference (score) on four scales associated with the four quadrants of the human brain:  logical/rational, structured/conservative, interpersonal and conceptual/risk-taking.

You probably will not be surprised at my preferences.  My highest score is on the conceptual scale.  People in this quadrant tend to explain things in metaphors (like comparing life to movies).  My lowest score is on the interpersonal scale.  That explains why I prefer spending hours alone in my office cranking out this blog than attending conferences to present my thoughts.

Which brings me back to Biden and Flores.  Without administering the HBDI test, I would bet the farm Joe Biden is off the interpersonal scale and Lucy Flores’ dominant preference is on the structured/conservative scale.  Thus, unlike Joe Tynan, Biden and also Flores are not captives of their environments.  They are captives of their dominant brain preferences.  Biden wants to hug everyone.  One of the major shortcomings of the weekend reporting is every picture only showed Biden interacting with women.  But how about the photos below?

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And if I’m correct about Lucy Flores, Joe Biden is not the only person who she feels has at one time or another violated her space.  That is why, when we conduct HBDI team training, the goal is not to compare profiles, but to help participants understand how people with different preferences react differently to words, actions or situations.

The conclusion.  Neither party is at fault.  Lucy Flores has a right to her space and one can certainly understand her discomfort at asking the sitting Vice President of the United States to “back off.”  And Joe Biden is not a seducer, but is seduced by his preference to be close to people. The fact he has now acknowledged her discomfort is a learning moment.

What worries me more is we seem to have lost the distinction between one person’s desire to connect with others and another person’s belief that grabbing women by the genitals is okay.

For what it’s worth.
Dr. ESP

 

Festivus in March

Everyone is familiar with the concept of “Christmas in July.” It’s origins go back to 1944 when the U.S. Post Office held a “Christmas in July” luncheon to remind those on the home front it was never too early to send holiday cards and presents to ensure they would be received by service men and women overseas. The event was repeated in 1945.

One would have thought the tradition would have died a natural death following the end of World War II. However, in 1950, “Christmas in July” was resurrected (maybe they should have called it “Easter in July”) by a few wannabee Don Drapers on Madison Avenue. Retail stores began advertising “Christmas in July” sales. Television stations reran holiday specials (now central to the culture of the Hallmark Channel). And what faux Christmas season would be complete without a party featuring mistletoe, Saint Nick and secret Santa exchanges?

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If it works for Christmas, why not other December celebrations? Ask no more. This weekend, Donald Trump inaugurated the first annual “Festivus in March.” Many of us first learned of Festivus during a 1967 episode of “Seinfeld.” However, the holiday was the brainchild of Daniel O’Keefe, author and an editor of Reader’s Digest. O’Keefe created Festivus to counter the pressures and commercialism associated with the Christmas season. Ironically, O’Keefe’s son co-wrote the Seinfeld episode which forever branded Festivus as a cultural meme.

Among the many Festivus traditions–Festivus pole, dinner, feats of strength–perhaps the most iconic is “Airing of Grievances,” which precedes the holiday feast. Which brings me to Trump’s celebration of “Festivus in March.” Just as Frank Constanza (Jerry Stiller) declares, “I’ve got a lot of problems with you people and now you’re gonna hear about it,” Trump chose this weekend to air a few of his greatest hits.

  • The closing of the Lordstown, Ohio GM plant was the fault of the UAW.
  • Praising Republican Senators who had the courage to shred Article I of the Constitution in support of his declaration of a National Emergency at the southern border as opposed to those who caved and joined the Democrats.
  • Chastising Fox News for suspending Jeanine Pirro just because she does not believe in the First Amendment’s freedom of religion.
  • Sending a message via Twitter aimed at his Attorney General that there should never be a Mueller report.
  • Delighting in the Yellow Vest protests in France because Macron supports the Paris Climate Accords.
  • Attacking the late John McCain for acts of conscience, voting no on ACA repeal and replace and forwarding the Christopher Steele dossier to the FBI over concerns about Russian interference in a American election.
  • Pretending to be the driving force in the unanimous House vote to make the Mueller Report public.
  • Acknowledging the impacts of severe weather on farmers and ranchers in the Midwest while ignoring the role of climate change.
  • Urging American Jews to flee the Democratic Party despite his belief that “good people” carried tiki torches and chanted “Jews will not replace us” in August 2017 or falsely claiming Jews were funding refugee caravans.
  • Attacking late night talk show hosts for making fun of him even though their biggest laughs are generated by quoting Trump’s tweets or comments.
  • Denying an increase in the worldwide growth of white supremacist groups and attacks hours after 50 Muslims were massacred by a self-proclaimed white supremacist.

But the true meaning of Festivus comes not from words, but actions. There is a reason the final rite associated with the Festivus celebration is the “Feats of Strength.” According to FestivusWeb.com, the holiday “is not over until the head of the household is wrestled to the floor and pinned.” (Perhaps Trump, as usual, selectively chose to ignore that aspect of the holiday.) The challenger is picked by the family patriarch. In the Seinfeld episode, Frank gives Kramer the honor.

Fortunately for us, Trump’s challenger for this premiere edition of Festivus in March has already been designated. And even though, according to Festivus rules, the challenger is given a pass “only if he has something better to do instead,” I don’t see that happening.

[Cue Michael Buffer]

In this corner, hailing from New York City, standing 5’11” and weighing in at 165 pounds, graduate of Princeton University and the University of Virginia Law School, former Director of the FBI and Special Council Robert Mueller III.

Let’s get ready to rumble!!!

For what it’s worth.
Dr. ESP